yeah.... my church lost 2 kids to car related deaths.. kelly herman (car accident) and my friend john to a truck... so next year we fear who it'd be....

the 3rd rule is EVIL and must be banished lol, then again the lost feeling inside does too but not much can be done about that...

i know it doesnt mean much but maybe take a second and think... they're now in Heaven where we live to go to after it's our time. they're living with God, they've met Him... and they're going to be there when we get home...it's never goodbye with those we love-just a very long time apart from them.

idk if it helps, but i know that it helped a lot when John died in feb-then again i knew him through church so it was talked about with religious look on it and idk, it really helped me to deal especially b/c it was just so shocking since he was just 21 and he got hit by a truck in a "freak accident"